People who are mentally healthy

People who are mentally healthy

Will want you to be the same

Will help you to feel the way that they do

Have no interest in putting you down, criticising you, blaming you

Why….because its in their best interest….and yours

Know that they may form a part of your self esteem or feelings, but never all of it

 

People who are mentally unhealthy

Will put you down

Will blame you for their feelings, life, world, choices they make

Why….because its its in their interest to do so

It makes them feel better

It deflects responsibility from their behaviour

It allows them to be in….and stay in the perpetual victim mode

They are the victim….even though they are blaming

Want you to depend upon them for the crumbs of positive stuff….that rarely comes.